Like at parties I feel like I always have to say hi first to girls. Like they won't come up to me I have to go up to them, what gives?
Most Helpful Girl
My male coworkers say they have and never would reject a girl who asked them out even if they weren't attracted to her. This will prevent me from ever doing it because I don't want to invest into a guy who doesn't like me but also doesn't have the balls to say it.
Girls fear rejection and experience it less than men, so it psychologically affects us differently. We also aren't used to it, so it takes more courage. I have a friend who refuses to even look at a hot guy when she's close to him because of this.
A lot of the times, guys may expect sex from it, or so we women assume. Other girls also call girls sluts if they're too easy.
Some girls don't think they're ready for a relationship, so they won't ask little or accept due to this or a recent breakup.
It's a societal norm. People like to think they can change gender roles, but they can't if it's a societal norm the vast majority is willing to accept.
Women want to be desired and there's no better way of proving you desire her than telling her you want to take her out on a date (and pay for it lol).
It's also just as hard for some girls to gauge whether a guy is into her as it is for a guy to gauge whether a girl is into him.
It's been proven that guys take more risks than women due to higher levels of testosterone.
There's probably more, but I can't think of it right now.0
Most Helpful Guy
Well, even though times are changing, even today men are still expected to make the first move. I mean nowadays women also do it but it's till not very common that this happens. Mostly it is expected of a man to pursue a woman, but it's not women don't do it nowadays, but it's not as common as men though things are changing.
I do understand may be you are incapable of making the first move, nothing wrong in that, there are many men who lack the capacity to make the first move. Well you can wait for a woman to make the move and it's possible it will happen, but you need lot of luck, so you will have to depend on your luck.