All right men, it has been a long time since I was in the dating scene. I am getting mixed messages, is it OK to take the initiative to call men? I don't want to be a pest. How do I know you don't want us to call you?
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If I give a girl my number I'd hope they'd use it, what other reason do I have to give it out? If you do some backwards roundabout way of getting their number from someone else you're playing with fire and should definitely at least be on familiar and friendly terms with the person before even trying to call, or you're probably just going to freak th em out.
It is definitely OK to call men as a woman, in fact I wish more women would get out there and pursue the men of their interest, it would make for a lot less traffic on forums like these, and a lot less confusion for everyone.
The best way to know if you want this particular guy to call him is to call him. If you're well received, which you should be, since he gave you his number, he wanted you to call. If it crashes and burns he probably didn't want you to call and wasn't right in the head when he gave you the number, or you got his number from a roundabout way and that's not okay with him.0