I personally like being told but hate having to tell people because I tend to be pretty cold.
Last night i had to tell someone to their face that they aren't my type because they had tattoos, smoked weed, and that we just didn't have much in common. It felt harsh but i don't know how to filter myself- if they want to know, I'm guna tell them straight up.
Which would you rather do and have done to you?
- I prefer telling them the truth and want them to tell me too (I like confrontation)30% (8)69% (18)49% (26)Vote
- I prefer they just take a hint but I need them to tell me they aren't interested22% (6)8% (2)15% (8)Vote
- I prefer they take a hint and I know how to take a hint too (i dont like confrontation)30% (8)4% (1)17% (9)Vote
- I prefer telling the truth but i can usually take a hint if they aren't interested in me18% (5)19% (5)19% (10)Vote
Most Helpful Guy
With my personality always being optimistic, I will almost always talk myself into "she likes me but is shy", especially when most of the time when I meet her, I ask for her contact info and she gives it to me. So in my opinion I have EVERY right to think she is interested. My ego won't allow me to surrender a dating prospect that gave ME her contact info.
Therefore, hints don't work for me at ALL! She needs to woman up and tell me she is not interested, because my will is strong and my ego won't allow me to back down.
My mind always goes to "I'm an awesome dude, she has no reason NOT to be interested in me. The more she gets to know me, the more she'll know I'm a great catch. Just a matter of time until she wises up."1
Most Helpful Girl
I can actually do both. I rather that they tell me the truth than lie or lead me on. But I can read body languages and sense things from people, so even if they smile and pretend to like me, I know the truth either way. I value honesty in a person, as long as its not deliberately to hurt me.1