Ok so there is this guy I really like. And he i always flirting with me. But here's the catch he isn't single. His girlfriend is really nice and I have nothing against her, but he seems so unhappy. He tells me that he just doesn't like her anymore. Does it make me a bad person that I want him to just break up with her.
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I don't know if i should say it or not but i guess i will, in my opinion yes it makes you a horrible person as you shouldn't be close with him because the only reason to find out he was unhappy is when he's with you. Here's what i actually meant, when you get close with him and he feels happy being with you then he will start to think that being with his current girlfriend wasn't happy at all because he wasn't spending much time on her but instead on you and in order to make a relationship works it takes both parties and if one was with another girl, then well it should be the girl that is unhappy not him. I'm sorry but this is the hard truth. As you said, his girlfriend is nice and you have nothing against her so it's best to leave that guy you like alone with his girlfriend and see what happen. If they get back together and seems happy then you probably have to move on. But if they break up then you'll stand a chance but you wouldn't want to be with him because who know's after being with you, he might treat you the same as he treat his previous girlfriend after few months or years in the relationship and end up finding someone else. Here's some tips: A guy who is in relationship and yet flirting other girls is isn't what you want to find because he's just a playboy who flirt with other girls once he get bored it. Even though if the girlfriend makes him unhappy or didn't show any concern as you did, still he shouldn't be flirting with other girls until he has broken up clean with her. Hope this helps :) Make a wise choice my friend :) Goodluck!0
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