I've been friends with this guy for about eight years, he's one of my best friends, we know everything about one another. About a month ago he kissed me, told me he's in love with me and said that I am his future. I told him I felt the same way and so we decided to try it out (without making anything really official. But we did agree to not see anyone else) It was great for a bit but then school started and he's been super busy with the businesses that he is in so we haven't really been talking or seeing each other (to the point where I haven't seen him and have barely talked to him in three weeks). He came with me to a wedding the other night and I told him that it bothered me and he promised he would be better, and to never forget how much he loves me and that I'm the best thing in his life etc. I get he is busy and I'm not asking to see him everyday, but a text every so often would be nice. I want to continue with this because I love him but it's really discouraging when this happens. So my question is if I guy says he loves you, misses you so much and says he wants to marry you one day, why would he act like that?
Most Helpful Guy
8 years is a long time to wait. If he hasn't given up on you in that time I doubt he ever will.
I think texting everyday is reasonable, no matter how busy you to are. Let him know that is what you need, he clearly cares and should be willing to do that.
As to why, I am only guessing, if he is talking marriage he might want to work harder on his business to be able to provide for you. Some guys can feel a lot of pressure that way.
Talk to him about how he is feeling and what you both want for the future.0
Most Helpful Girl
I think you should give him a chance.0