I know a lot about gay people because most of my friends are gay and my sister's lesbian but I don't know if I can discuss this with her yet. I'm not ready. I like boys, I'm very sexually attracted to them. They play me a lot and I'm sick and tired of it, but I still am very attracted. I was pretty sure I was straight because I've had sex with a girl before and I didn't feel anything. When I had sex with the girl, she was my best friend and I thought she was pretty faced, but as shallow as it sounds, her body just didn't turn me on like that. Lately, I've been curious and I've actually been daydreaming about this one girl I met on a dating site. I hope she's interested... but is it possible to go back and forth from straight to gay? I'm really confused.
Do you think people are born gay or can someone turn gay?
What Guys Said 4
Something that is not a matter of belief, but is fact, is that the brain has plasticity.
Brain plasticity is what gives us our ability to learn and adapt, it gives us the ability to change our nature, to alter how we think when given the motivation to do so.
My belief is that, that very plasticity also gives us the ability to manipulate our sexual attraction and repulsion. It is not a difficult thing to develop a new fetish that one was not previously interested in, if given the right stimulus.
Even Stockholm syndrome is possible due to plasticity.0
I have a friend He told me that when he was a teen he was perfectly fine, but when he started watching porn he started feeling attraction to men. When I spoke with him it felt he was a little bit confused who he is.0
What Girls Said 1
Both can happen. People who claim that environmental factors do not play a role are clueless.0
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