So I was wondering how guys feel about dating a single mother. How big of an issue is it for you, or is it not one. why, or why not? I'm a single mother and I have been having a hard time finding a guy. One guy who I am friends with told me he would NEVER date a mom and he explained his reasoning as he wanted kids to be a choice he made with someone not a requirement. And I understand that, but I was wondering if others felt the same. Let me know :)
Most Helpful Guy
I know I'm not your target demographic, but I'll answer the way I would have answered when I was your age.
It isn't a deal breaker, but it's a red flag. I would inquire further to find out why she's a single mother. I would ask why did the father leave? At what point did he leave? Why did you decide to raise the child on your own? And perhaps some other questions.0
Most Helpful Girl
My current boyfriend told me that the fact that I have children of my own was a bonus, he is wonderful with them and he absolutely adores them.
He also has 2 children of his own who he has 50/50 custody of tho, so he knows what it's like to be a single parent as well.