What do y'all think about this? I believe that it's okay as long as boundaries are set and as long as he isn't just usi her for sex.
Most Helpful Guy
Most of the time the older guy is just using the younger girl for a young piece of ass and will easliy manipulate the girl until he gets bored and leaves her. Most of these relationship don't last long.1
Most Helpful Girl
... Just be careful, alright? I have known a 42 year-old man for two and half years. At first, the relationship was innocent. He just wanted to talk. Then, he started asking for things. Pictures, videos, Skype sessions, etc. I finally said yes to all of that after several months of talking to him, but I felt horrible about what I was doing. I was also suspicious of him. I knew that, online, any grown man that talks to a minor is just using them. That is a FACT. Unless you're old enough (18) for a serious relationship, most men are using you to get off. So, I did some research, and I discovered he was still MARRIED. He had confessed to having children at one point, but it took a lot to get him to admit that he was married. Even though I had been talking to him for 2 years at this point, there was still a lot I didn't know about him. I had to show him proof, threaten him (by saying I'll tell someone about our relationship), and "scream" at him over text before he finally said the truth.
I'm telling you this because I don't want you to get hurt. A lot is at risk. In my story, I was 13 when I found Jeff. In your situation it might be okay (you're turning 18 soon), but mine definitely wasn't. If he ever asks you for personal things, you're not obligated to give them. You can say no.1