Just went on first date with a co-worker of mine... He is seeing another lady, barely and no title. So we met at a bar and his focus entirely on me, we had playful banter and he had his arm on he back of my chair. After a drink and appetizers we walked over to the movie theatre and he bought some more snacks (kept asking if I wanted anything). He didn't make a move at all... I took initiative and cuddled up to him with my head on his shoulder and then he put his hand on my knee and rested his head stop mine. We had some flirty moments with the twizzlers trying to feed eachother☺️ After the movie it was early morning and he walked me to my car he said "I had a good time" and we kissed, but then he kinda pulled away and we parted one more kiss. He text me to tell him when I made it home safely and again he had a good time. He's working today and I'm off but I havnt heard from him... Is that weird? Do you think he likes me or he's just confused about things right now? I dunno what his intentions are🤔
Please RANK this first date?
What Guys Said 6
@Lioness going on what you've described about your first date, it sounds positive 😆👍
He likes you a lot so therefore was playing it safe as to not come across as a sleaze or rather being desperate! The fact that he told you to text him when you arrived home safely and saying he had a good time tells you that a 2nd date should be forthcoming.
Don't over analyse things okay because it's only going to make you feel paranoid!1
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This is a common subject. People always ask questions about getting together with co-workers
This is a terrible idea.
Because, everyone will talk about this. No, you cannot keep it a secret. Everyone knows "who's doing who". People can see the subtle looks, body language, etc. People will talk about you, in some cases, negatively, because they know it isn't cool.
If the 2 parties are overt in their relationship, it creates a nonprofessional environment, which can lead to difficulties with the bosses.
THEN, if the relationship fails. What then? Well, the talk gets worse. The two parties themselves may talk poorly about the other person. Rumors are started. True or false, a bad environment ensues.
Nothing good becomes of this.
He may have realized this.0
What Girls Said 2
I am not sure. I mean, there wasn't even a kiss. Plus, the guy is dating someone else. It was sort of romantic though, so I will give it a 7 perhaps?1
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