Lack of communication between dates?

I've been seeing this guy for about a month and we've had 3 dates so far (one per week). First 2 dates, he would messaged me randomly after the date, not a lot and not every day but he did. Last date (3rd date), I spent the night at his place and we kissed for the first time and cuddled up but did not have sex (he wanted to but I didn't let him). Day after that, I stayed till the afternoon, he took me to lunch and everything was normal; he wanted to take me to another place to hang out for a bit more but I had to leave because I had stuff to do. After that, I haven't heard from him and it's been 4 days, should I worry? He did ask me if I would wanna come to his place again last time and I'm pretty sure he's not calling me off but still the lack of communication between dates makes me feel uneasy, is it a sign of anything?


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What Guys Said 1

  • As a guy who does this on purpose I can tell you that he wants only sex from you. I leave girls without replying like this when they refuse having sex and I leave them until they text. If they text I tell them to meet me at my place, when they came I try to have sex again, if she won't let me again then bye bye no more texts.


What Girls Said 1

  • Message him once. If he won't reply or if he tells you that he's busy, give up on him.