You know you've heard people say 'looks don't matter in a relationship', but what if you knew your partner wasn't physically attracted to you? Would that be a big deal to you/how would you feel? Would that be a big enough problem to break up/find someone who was physically attracted to you?
Secondly, would you be willing to date someone who was a fantastic partner in every way other than the fact that he/she is not physically attractive to you? Why or why not?
Is physical attraction an absolute must in a relationship?
Most Helpful Guy
How would I feel? I've been in that situation where I felt that way, in spite of what they said, because of how low their sex drive was. It devastated my self esteem. It took a fair bit for me to learn to feel okay about myself in spite of that, and it's still, to be honest, nothing like i'd feel if I was in a relationship with a partner actively desiring me.
Given what I've learned, if I were dating now, testing for their attraction to me would be something i'd do very early, and I have zero interest in dating someone who -isn't- very sexually attracted to me. Some women are! I'm only interested in dating them.
As for the other direction? I need to want to fuck them. Pretty bad. Seeing them in tight clothes or bent over or naked should make me think YESSSS. They do not have to be anywhere near perfect for that to be the case, but that level of desire needs to be there.0
Most Helpful Girl
I actually don't know. My crush only seems to like me cause I like him so I am confused. But he is totally sweet he gave me his jacket and all. I would totally wanna date him! I would scream yes if he asked me out and tell all my friends <3
But, later (I get really insecure) I will have trust issues like if he thinks other girls are pretty/beautiful. This can cause cheating very quickly so I would probably ask him and put him to the test to see if he really loves me like this video: