I'm talking about the kind where instead of going out to an expensive restaurant, the man makes the woman a nice meal himself. Instead of going out to a movie, they relax and watch a movie at one of their places. As a college guy who's broke I wouldn't mind a relationship, but don't want to spend out the ass to make her happy.
I think any girl -college or not- would appreciate a man cooking them dinner and having them over for a movie night! When you said "casual" relationship, just hooking up came to mind. Cheap dates are not casual! It a great way to get to know someone - and more responsible than maxing out credit cards!
You consider that a casual relationship? lol I was thinking like an open relationship shorta thing. What you describe is just a relationship. Relationships don't need fancy dates and stuff, and being a college student as well, I'd probably prefer a chill relationship like that.
There will be girls who want a man to go all out his way to make them feel they have standards. There are girls like me who doesn't care about the fancy things. Time and effort is all I need. Honesty and loyalty. You will find a girl who wants to get to know you. Try to start off as friends get to know how she is , what she likes. Everything else will fall in place. Ps don't be in the friend zone to long or you will be that friend forever lol
I would think most girls around that age would be like that. They all know how it is being in college and not having a lot of money so they wouldn't necessarily expect you to go out to an expensive restaurant and all. And if they do expect that then they really aren't someone you should want to be with.
In the beginning, I think a lot of people put their best faces on and try to impress the other person by taking them to fancy places and doing fun activities. But as it progresses into something long term, yes, thats actually how a lot of people do it. Netflix and a home cooked meal is just perfect 👌🏼
The question, for said college guy should be, "Am I willing to 'spend out the ass' on a girl who doesn't understand I'm broke and in school, and seems to be out more for the date itself than to be with myself?"
Dude I'm a college student and I could take a girl out
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