Never gotten back with an ex. Came close, but never happened. It can be easy to fall back into a broken relationship because often times the love and comfort is still there. There was just a problem that at the time you felt could not be solved, so you break up. Little bit of time and that problem is either considered something you can overlook or something you can work past, then happy ever after. Orrr, you ignore the problems entirely. Have hot sex. Wet and wild times for a couple weeks, when you realize in your now sober mind, "oh shit, things are the same... what did ii dooo?". Fight. Breakup for good.
Are you talking about having a successful relationship with the person they previously broke up with? If so, yes, some people break up and get back together and are able to have successful relationships. In other cases though, it simply never works out. Some people try to force the relationship to work when they're just not right for each other. It depends on the couple though, of course.
I dont get back with previous ex boyfriends. Because I tend to find that a lot of times they rarely change and men just are stuck in their way until after 40. Thats when most men mature and really start looking to settle down.
Yes and no. We broke up for 5 months. Didn't see each other at all in that time frame. I was very heartbroken. Then one day we got back together and it lasted 1.5 years more. Currently, we are still involved but its kind of complicated since our huge fall out in July. We love each other a lot, but I'm not sure its successful in any way shape or form. I think maybe its more of a 'first relationship syndrome' where I just can't let go and neither can he.
I had an on and off relation with my ex. That was cause I used to make more efforts in our relation. He wasn't loyal to me and he broke my trust. Some people do not change, that's the reason getting back with an doesn't work most of the time.
If you mean with the same person I had an on and off (for a few days) relationship with someone for over 4 years. I don't call that a success. If you mean with a new person, well I can't say but so far things are good with my new person.
You be the judge Head over heels in love & lust when young with hedonistic young gal that eventually became Hitler in planning free time together and often left on summer vacations w/family so went on a break ignoring being treated like that and she - not being a pursuer (too proud?) - just stalked me once in awhile. Other gals would take me off the shelf & give it a go as a fling. Got back together, back in love & passion, got married, life got stressful and eventually she renewed her bad habits including her secret life with gals night out until she discovered a replacement candidate = divorce and I made the bad guy in surrealistic terms, in order to coverup her infidelity, retain position at work/social/family
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