My taste in girls is pretty much in line with what is considered conventionally attractive. So when I pass up a woman who doesn't do anything for me, I'm called a "shallow pig" by her friends and who is "only interested in models". What's so ridiculous about this is that for them to make such comments, they are obviously very well aware of their friends physical flaws, but of course *I* am supposed to look past them
Yet when the roles are reversed and a girl is rejecting a guy for being too short or out of shape, she's just exercising her freedom choice, which she has every right to have?
What's funny is, I've also turned down some women who were quite pretty, and people assumed i'm some kind of rare guy who wants more than looks xD
I feel like it's a way for women to cope with the rejection to call you shallow. Let's face is 9/10 women are more hormonal and sensitive than guys. The double standard is this stupid belief that women are the delicate little flowers and you should never do anything to hurt their feelings. However, men are supposed to be these tough guys so girls don't realize their rejection for just as shallow of reasons can hurt a mans feelings and self esteem
Everyone is allowed to have physical preferences. Who cares what anyone else thinks? Regardless of what anyone says, both men AND women value looks and physical appearance. I don't know anyone who wants to date someone they aren't attracted to. Being rejected is hard though so some people just use anything they can to rationalize it by calling the person who rejected them "shallow" or any other name. Don't worry about it too much.
There is no double standard. You have every right to have a type and be attracted to certsin girls. Anyone who makes you feel like you are not allowed to exercise this right is either jealous or crazy.
Lol, so I guess the guys walking around saying 'No Fat Chick's' don't count, huh? Oh please, men reject women for shallow reasons just as women do it to men. It's not far but it's the law of attraction.
It's just fat chicks being jealous. No one can tell me who to date and no amount of shaming is going to change my type. My type is my type. It's mine and no one else gets any input on the subject unless I say they do.