Ok, so I'm a little bit old school when it comes to dating or finding someone. You hit on me or I hit on , flirting, face to face, etc type of thing, no online dating sites lol. With now a days all this identity theft , scams , fake profiles and cyber issues going around it freaks me out a little on who I'm I meeting on the other end.
One day I turned to this online dating site just for fun had nothing else to do and created an account (although I'm single, but not desperate) haha. I did my searches and actually found/he found me. We've been chatting for about 5 days, I'll say. He lives the states but is spending sometime at the UK with his family. Based on our conversations, he seems nice (or too early to judge) and asked me to talk to him over the phone. ? I'm guessing he wants to video chat. Now, is this going to quick or is it normal in the online dating world?
he has a picture but I have no picture profile yet he still chats with me. Should I continue with this? Whenever he comes back to the states, should I offer to pick him up and see each other for the first time?
What do you think?
Most Helpful Guy
Online dating is very worthy because you may meet the man/girl of your dreams over there, but in your case it seems weird because the guy talks to you and you don't even have a picture... This clearly shows that he is desperate for pussy and wants nothing more then that. If you are ok with having sex with him go ahead but verify his identity, tell him to send a picture of his driving licence, google using his name, see him live in video whatever.
But yes online dating is worth because nowadays we don't meet a lot of new people in real life (at least me I am busy 2 jobs gym...). You have the possibility to find and filter people by interests ethnicity whatever you want selection is easier, but the risks are higher too because if you are a girl most of the guys want just to bang you and act always nice like they want serious dating. There is no way telling if a guy wants to fuck you only or wants something serious to you by their behavior, the only thing that can tell that is time!!! If the guy agrees and is fine with you not having sex for lets say 3 months still acts good nice it means he wants something serious with you, otherwise you will be dumped after 1 week of not allowing him sex. I wish you all the best whatever your intentions are, just verify his identity and do whatever you want ;)2
Most Helpful Girl
honestly, GO FOR IT! I went on POF when I first started dating sites, I was looking for something, wasn't sure what. In my bio I also stated I wanted NO friends with benefits or one night stands.
anyways, I found a couple people that seemed ok, but it felted weird like there was something different. (I even talked on the phone with them).
then I met this other guy,
we started texting every day, talking on the phone. and we have so much in common. we waited 2 weeks before actually meeting each other. (We skyped too)
you never know until you try! 8 months later and I'm so happy from that dating site ♡