Something that has happened to me recently, and a few of my friends, is when a guy completely ghosts on you. I understand that when there's no connection or a date goes wrong you end things. What I don't understand is why guys are ALWAYS disappearing without any explanation.
Do you think that the person you ghosted on was truly that awful and they deserve absolutely no closure? or are you just too big of a wimp to come out and say "Im not interested" I 100% don't understand why guys think ignoring it until it goes away is the right thing to do. I've told guys in the past that I didn't seem to have a connection and I think it's best that we go our separate ways, why is it so hard for you all to do that? It's not like it's the year 1965 where you have to go up in person and end things with someone, things are so easy now, and the fact that guys can't even send a simple "I don't think this is going to work out" text really concerns me.
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I really think women do this significantly more than men do. And the reason is they are no longer interested so they don't give a fuck. Why would they give you an explanation when they've already deemed you unworthy? That would be going out of their way to do something uncomfortable just for your benefit. It's much easier to just ghost and let them figure it out themselves. Something women are really good at it seems to me. Just ignoring until they finally get the picture and have embarrassed themselves enough by trying to keep contact. That's basically the default way everyone says "I'm not interested in you." Especially women. It's not a "guy thing".1