Most Helpful Guy
No. But it is one of those things that girls generally believe is true, no matter how often it is shown to be false.
I personally think they believe it's true about guys, because it is true about girls, and they don't get how guys can be different.
A girl who plays hard to get, just stays not got. Or she attracts guys who like the chase more than they like girls. In which case once the chase is over, the girl is still on her own.
Girls tend to want what they can't have. Guys tend to want a girl who wants them.0
Most Helpful Girl
I don't where have you heard that nonsense from, but that is far from the truth. 'Play hard to get' can mean three different things:
1. The girl wants to play with a guys head to make him pursue her more, either as an ego boost, or to see what he will do.
2. People like me: Who is just not interested. The guys still chase you even after you say no multiple times. But they claim that your playing hard to get.
3. She's either just too difficult or unsatisfied.
Honestly, nobody wants to feel ignored or be made out like you don't even consider them. Some guys like jocks for an example may like that kind of thing because it gives them the ability to chase. And many people love the chase. But its bad when the guy is the only one chasing, and the woman is out of his reach. Or she refuses to be chased. So stop listening to everybody and get wisdom. Don't play the game. If you like them, tell them. If you won't, then leave it be. Because somebody is not going to play games and will talk to that guy you wanted to talk to, and then that's it.0