I'm 21. I have all my affairs in order. I'm nice, polite, considerate , a good communicator , very positive. All I look for in a woman is the same things and physical attractiveness as well.
I've tried dating for a while. And it seems like girls don't want that. I've tried for a long time and it's weird because they seem to be turned off by tiny things or that they just want to use me. It's stupid.
Im doing speed dating next month and I'm wondering if "Women really want to get to know a guy before committing to them?" Because I want to get to know a women before committing to her"
Like I'm not going to automatically start being in love with someone for no reason who's a stranger. Lol. That's weird.
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It should be done in your way..
I mean you want to get to know her you want to feel/know that she's the girl you want to be with before commit to her..
Because a guy and a girl have had an initial attraction to eachother and attracted to/like eachother, doesn't mean they need to jump onto conclusion like that.
I want to get to know my date first and see how it goes between us.. I think it just naturally happens when things go great between us. I never rush things.1