so my boyfriend is really close to this girl. and we were talking about boundaries the other day, so he showed me his texts and i found out that he texts the girl things like "i love you", "i miss you" and sexual jokes (i dont know if there's more). he says he only treats her as a friend as says "i love you" and stuff like that as a friend. but im really bothered. and it is really obvious that the girl is flirting with her because she KEEPS ON texting him. and there was once i think they were skyping and he took hours to reply me. the thing is i think they started texting WHILE we were dating. so i think its at some point of time when he lost interest in me. but he says he only loves me and no one else. i really dont know what to do, or what to believe. i feel that it would be overbearing to ask him to stop texting her completely because he might be bored and need someone to talk to when im busy. i really dont know.
My boyfriend texts another girl?
What Guys Said 4
You are in great trouble not because of him but because of what you think about him.0
Yikes , I would definitely talk with him and see if he's cheating on you.
What Girls Said 3
The other guys are right. He needs to stop talking to this other girl the way he does while he's with you. Talk to him about it. If he doesn't change, I would leave.0
Honestly if I was in this position I would not be okay with that at all. he's YOUR boyfriend he shouldn't be telling any other girl he loves them like that it just seems odd to me. If it were me I'd ask him to stop texting her completely.0
You need to break up with him asap. This is not normal at all. He is cheating and you are going to keep hurt. Please take my advice and move on! You deserve better and somebody out there WILL treat you better.0
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