Successful men want hot women and we want successful men that are not cheap. What is the point of earning so much? to spend it on other men? No It's to impress women.. If a girl is smoking hot, and not just a desperate "gold digger" has her own great chemistry, but is clearly is use to being spoiled, what makes you think you can just hook up? . Dinner after dinner but is nice but what about surprising her with a gift/shopping or nice gestures? Some men Understand and love it! Other men even after hints won't step it up and and spoil therefore no cookie but what's the big deal?
Guys, Why are some weathly men afraid to spend money and spoil?
What Guys Said 21
A. You are a gold digger
B. Most rich people who will always be rich are those who act like normal regular people.
For one, flashy cars for one are a terrible investment. All cars are. They are the fastest asset that depreciates. As soon as you drive it off the loft it's not nearly as worth as you just paid for it.
Secondly the people that flaunt money and act like they are rich. They didn't earn it like a person who wkrks haRd dat in and da out. Either they are kids of rich parents or kings or queens princes in fringe Middle east where people are dying, celebrities, football stars.2
I do that for my girl; I send her flowers randomly, or other gifts. Trust me, I remember all the important dates (Saturday is Sweetist's Day, for example, and I send her 24 open when letters with surprises in them). I take her shopping when I'm with her (we're in a LDR). But I digress. My guess would be that some guys just don't care. They know their money and status will always attract women, and they just cycle through them with no intent or desire to commit. Or so I'd guess.1
They are testing you, and you are failing their test. The test is to weed out gold diggers. And as you can no doubt see for yourself, this test is 100% foolproof. It absolutely weeded you out. If you only like things that cost money and you only enjoy places that cost money and gifts that cost money, you need to quit lying to yourself. You're a gold digger. You might not like that word, but that is how men see you. Stock up on cat food now.0
You do know Gold Diggers can still be wealthy themselves. They just want more of that wealth. Why spend their own money when they can spend a mans.
You realize at a certain amount of wealth he can just buy affection, sex, company. Yeah, it's not real or genuine but does it matter really. What you're describing isn't much better. No one deserves to be "spoiled". How do you even make that hint? " Ah geez, i wish i had a new Aston Martin in my drive way... hint. hint."
by the way... i'm easily worth $50-Billion, i therefore meet the "No Broke men" requirement. Will post tax returns on request.
They don't flash their money because they are trying to avoid women like you. I had a friend who had about $50 Million. He was dating and kept it all secret because he wanted to be with a woman who loved him for himself and not for the money.
You say you are not a "gold digger" but that's what you sound like to me. You don't want to "hookup" unless you are paid, maybe not in cash but in gifts. In the end it's the same thing. If you want to get paid for sex, be honest about it. Take out an add on backpage. com. Realize that when a wealthy guy pays for sex, what he's paying for is for you to go away when he's finished.0
The point of making good money is not to spend it on women, it's too spend it on myself. Why should I buy you a Fendi purse? I'll get myself a new TV instead. Women that EXPECT to be spoiled don't deserve it.0
Why not just get a hooker instead1
Men with status no need answer this either. If you're doing just as well , why you need our money then.1
now try saying this, not anonymous1
I am a successful man. And guess what? I wouldn't fuck a 10 with a biohazard suit on.0
To avoid money grubbing whores2
They want to know whether you like them, or their money.1
Become a whore1
Lmao are you fucking serious... you are making it sound like because some girl is hot guys should blow money on her and take her shopping? Are you a fucking hooker or something? Sure if I'm into a girl it's nice to do those things for her, but only if I know she doesn't care about it one way or the other and would actually appreciate it and not expect it. Just because you were born above average looking doesn't mean you deserve some guy to blow all his money on you.. wow, this world is so fucked.0
Men do not want to date gold diggers. Get over it.1
This whole relationship thing is just a big game, i treat you nice and in return i get a reward which is sex, hell to the fuck no, you better love me for me or get the fuck out1
it seems like she -is- a gold digger in this case or at least feels that way.
Being able to spoil someone you like is nice. Them asking for it makes you feel used and unwanted. Which would make you spend less to see if that's all they wanted.1
Like someone else said, he became rich by saving his money not spending money on materialistic bitches. If she has her own then shit she should go buy her own. I hardly doubt that rich men get rich to impress women. Men are taught to go out in this world to dominate it. I sure as hell wouldn't be trying to impress some gold digging bitch. I'd just rather come straight out asking a girl to bang her in return for money. Is that prostitution? Sure yes why not, no different than a man spending money on a girl taking her to dinner, flowers the movies, etc., etc., for something that isn't even guaranteed. At least w the girl who's honest about wanting cash straight up I'm guaranteed to get my balls wet.1
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