I really like this guy and well I told him I wanted to tell him something and so now he's expecting me to tell him well the thing I was gonna tell him is that I like him (straight up) or is that too forward? If it's too forward what can I say? I'm not 100% sure if he likes me back too it seems like je does but I don't know like I don't wanna ruin our friendship. I was thinking of messaging him saying "I know we're just friends but well what I wanted to tell you is that I like you and I like talking to you, it makes me happy and I just like u in general) should I say that or what should I say? And will this ruin our friendship if he doesn't feel the same way?
Most Helpful Guy
It depends on your freind. But don't do it through text do it in person. When your hanging out with him just tell him fairly casually.
If you two are really good freinds then it will stand up to it. If your not true freinds then it won't
Like I thought I was good freind with a girl but she was just using me. So when I asked her out she hated it and destroyed the "freindship"
Another girl back in highschool said she liked me but I did not feel that way about her. She was like a sister to me so I said that I would think about how I feel about her. I took a week and said that she is like a sister to me I just don't feel that way but I do love her as my freind. We were really good freinds until we graduated and we just lost touch. That might have made us better freinds in the long run. I know that it made me realize that I loved having her as my freind. It might have worked out if I tried it but I did not. We stayed great freinds.
Now I'm in a position where I like my freind and I let her know about it with a hand written note. When I go to talk to her about the note or ask her out I just freeze. I do flirt with her and touch her. When I can I act like a gentleman. Honestly I can't tell what she thinks about me but she is still my freind. So I don't know she might be waiting for me to make a move.1
Most Helpful Girl
I am in the same situation!!!
I like my best friend and gonna tell how i think about him. I am gonna say like "i know you think me as a good friend but i have to tell you this i like you. This feeling is more than friendship and you don't have to like me and i really don't wanna ruin our friendship"3