My boyfriend is Puerto Rican and I love the guy. But when we're out together, I get side eye from Latina girls and black boys. And my boyfriend gets death stares.
Is it wrong for me being an African American girl to not like African American guys?
What Guys Said 11
Fuck 'em... Date who you want.1
You love who you love. I once dated a great African girl.1
your gonna always get that from separatist people , ignore them and enjoy your life dont let other sway you from what you want.0
There's no rule on dating. Honestly I'd be overjoyed to date a girl that is not white. A lot more to learn!3
No it not wrong we don't own u and u don't own us as simple0
There are tones of white girls not in to white guys. So fuck them.0
Nope it's not wrong, just people are stupid sometimes.0
well, if you don't like them BECAUSE they're black, then yeah, that's wrong. that's racism, but, if you don't like them for their personality, then no, that's fine0
No, it's called a preference. Everyone has them.1
What Girls Said 10
It's very normal for Puerto Ricans to date interracially, so if latinas are side eyeing you it's not due to racism. They may just be jealous of your beauty. The guys I can't speak for because I'm not black or a man so I can't say what they may be thinking.1
No, its not. Your not attracted to them. And neither am I. In fact they aren't even attracted to me! Maybe for you its because of this crap they think, or excuses:
1. You act too 'white' or not 'Black enough'. I've heard that mess before too. Your human and so is your boyfriend. Ignore those jealous jerks. Your dating him, not them.
They have no say over who you should date, marry and procreate with. This is why they end up bitter and single, and can't keep their legs closed. And I'm not saying all are like this. But too many are, and I say men of all nationalities and ethnic background.0
Not wrong at all. You like what you like girl.
Black men are the only race of men to degrade their own race of women. When they are in trouble they call us for support, but when we are in crisis... where are they? Oh that's right putting Becky on a pedestal while calling us nappy-headed hoes.
Not at all! I know exactly how you feel, I mean I'm attracted to black boys but I'm more attracted to Hispanic or European boys. And forget those other people, they're just hating on the fact that y'all aren't dating them.1
It doesn't matter - race shouldn't matter, like who you like!1
There is nothing wrong with it. I am Nigerian, and I live in the US.
I don't like the black guys here either. I have come across some really nasty ones. They are rude to the teachers at school, which surprises me. I mean were all in high school, now. We haven't all went through teacher problems and all that, and learnt from our mistakes.
They are sent to the office and ISS a lot.
Ant least those are my reasons for not liking them. We all have our opinions and reasons. ( '-')0
With any interracial relationship you will recieve hate from people. But don't let others stop you! I am white and my boyfriend is mexican we have had stares and have had rude remarks being spoken about us by other people but not directly to us. Just remember love conquers all! And it is not wrong either, whatever is your preference is yours not anyone else!0
WTF, no that's not wrong AT ALL, you love what you love! people need to respect that0
You like who you like. Nothing wrong with that0
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