I went on a first date with a guy and at the end he kissed me and is like i'm a really bad kisser and he leaned in again and i didn't say anything after the kiss. I felt that it was pretty bad. I really like him but he does kiss terribly. What can I say next time if he mentions that he is a bad kisser again. I found it really attractive that he went for it thought at least and i want him to kiss me again but i do want to be able to work on his kissing. Its not a deal breaker for me I can teach him but what can I say/do on the second date if he casually just says i know im a bad kisser and then kisses me? I don't want to lie to him and say "wow that was great" when it wasn't
Most Helpful Guy
Simply go "Honey, can I ask you something? Who taught you how to kiss?"
He can do one of two things there. He can go "? no one, why?" or he'll actually give you a name. If he gives a name, great, blame her, and offer to teach him how to kiss better.
If he says no one, just go "Oh honey, that explains it then." And offer to teach him how to kiss. If he thinks the majority of people don't need lessons, direct him to youtube. Or that scene in Cruel Intentions. There's millions of videos where people teach their partners how to kiss.
The main thing is not to criticise him, but make sure he knows the fault is with his previous partner, or if he never had one, the fault does not lie with him. It's just that no one taught him how to kiss properly yet.0
Most Helpful Girl
You could give him advise on what you like and what he does that you don't like. If he doesn't change after you tell him what you don't like, than I'd say he's either very stubborn or selfish.0