I have 2 friends that have been single for ages and always complain about it. They are average looking. Not overweight or anything but not 10's either.
They always go on about how there's no decent women left etc etc
Then if a girl actually does take a liking, she is too thin or too fat, boobs too small, hair the wrong colour, face not right, legs too short, bum not round enough and the list goes on.
I think there are heaps of good looking people. I did the grocery shopping last night and I think in 1 shop alone there must have been 50 or so 18-35yr old women that I would happily cuddle up to in bed at night.
Yes some people are just better looking than others. But really, most healthy young men and women that dont eat rubbish and do a bit of exercise are all good looking in their own way.
I think most people that complain that they can't find anyone to be with are just too picky and have set there standards to high.
I dont think we should just get with the first person we come across. But at the same time, if someone is complaining they are single and a decent kind of person shows an interest, wouldn't you at least take them out for a coffee before making up your mind?
What do you think?
Do you think a lot of people have dating troubles because they are too picky?
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Well, that's just a possibility but what I think is people who are single often try but don't get the expected results as they want. People who are too picky won't really complain about being single because they would be self aware of the fact that they have high standards so they are most likely aware of the reasons as to why they are single.
Such people know their consequences, that they will be single at least for a long time if not forever. Hence I don't think people who are too picky will complain about being single.
People who complain are those who try often but have bad luck which leads to their dissapointment.0