Okay, so here's the thing! I added a guy I find very attractive (know him through work, and he is kind of an "well known" profile in our rather small town, because he plays for the team here. I did kind of regret it because it was such a stupid thing to do, we follow each other on other social media and I was like well lets do this, he has not accepted it yet but a friend of mine told me that she added him too a few days ago accidentally (she did not know i sent him the friend request) and that she saw he rejected it before she even had time to remove the request a few hours later from her computer. He has not accepted/rejected mine yet, i'm so nervous because If I remove the request now it might look even worse as he probably have seen it. What do you guys think? I feel so stupid for even writing about this, because I usually don't care about these stuff and oh, NEVER add people i don't really know on faceook lol. but we sure do get silly when we have crushes...
Most Helpful Guy
We sure do get silly, come on, we can get extremely irrational but it is actually a good thing because what we think as silly is actually good because it shows us that we have emotions.
Now on to the friend request part. First of all, don't panic, it is just a friend request, not like you told him you liked him or love him. That would make you look like a fool in maybe his eyes but I for one would respect it since you didn't hold in your heart and beat around the bush.
Just understand that it was a friend request not a marriage request. And even if it was one it was not like a bad thing to do1
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Most Helpful Girl
Don't delete it, cause yeah, it will look like you gave it way too much thought. Don't stress about it, as the others have said, it's just a Facebook request, it shouldn't mean nothing in particular. I mean it could mean something to receive a friend request or it could mean nothing, so it doesn't mean that he'll immediately think you have a crush on him.