My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year, and I currently moved to a new university and now we are during a long distance relationship..
Last night I got really drunk and ended up making out with a classmate of mine. I regret it so much, and I came home crying. I was being very irrational and impulsive. It's something I can't undo and it kills me.
I've been having second thoughts as it is.
i would like to feel more secure in my relationship because my boyfriend hardly compliments me, or has yet to tell me he loves me. Don't get me wrong, he truly does care but it's hard to read my boyfriend.. I now tend to get flattered when another guy compliments me. Not only that he's had a bad habit of looking at other girls pictures on social media.. (He's stopped and deleted it) but Still bothers me every day.
Although, I feel like this is not an excuse to ever cheat. and it's really not like me to do something so stupid. I can't stop feeling guilty. I don't know what to do.
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Well, the key thing here is you feel horrible, and accept that what you have done is terrible in every way.
What comes next will not be easy. You've broken trust. Once you share with your boyfriend, what life done and how you feel about what transpired, then he will either leave you or consider you worthy enough for another chance.
Cheating is never acceptable, an you accept that. But I will say what you do have in your favor sort of is that, you seem to have only made out and not went all the way. That's better Han the alternative for most cheaters. But in any case, I hope your situation works out &a you learn from this.2