Went out on 3 dates with a guy. Went well.
Texted a few days later to thank him. Had small talk and then asked him "if you're around Thursday lets meet at the wren"
his response "unfortunately i already made plans for thurs"
haven't heard from him since (been 6 days)
I know they say if i guy wants you they'll text you, but can a guy be too scared?
Can i initiate again? he's going away for 20 days love to see him before he goes
Most Helpful Guy
yes.. if u like him go for it... it's better to know that to wonder0
Most Helpful Girl
Girls can text first. There's not a law against it.. maybe he could be too scared who knows. If you want to see him again before he leaves maybe shoot him a text asking him if he's free before he leaves for his trip that you'd like to see him again. If he doesn't agree and make plans than I say drop it.
I've been with a guy before who wouldn't text me first and I'd do all the planning and it turns out he wasn't that into me. So just be careful and don't waste your time on him so much in case he's not that into you. Don't want to see you get hurt by him.0