Say you found a guy you really wanted to marry or you could see marrying... You're young, pretty, maybe you like to party a bit... would you go out with "Mr. Right" and date him right now, and hopefully go all the way... or would you date around for fun and try to keep him close for later when you're ready?
I don't think that's very nice or fair for the guy... but would you do it?
Most Helpful Girl
well it depends what I wanted. if I don't want to settle down and still want to enjoy my youth then onto the backburner he goes. keeping him close would be selfish, but that's his fault if he sticks around. but if I did want to be with him at that time then I would stop partying and be with him, assuming he's who I wanted at that time. but if you're not ready then you're not ready. you can't just get serious with someone and fall in just because they want you to. it has to be the right time1
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