I have known this guy since 2014. 2014 and 2015, he never really took me seriously. We were friends with benefits and he would disappear on me and not tell me where I stood with him but I know that he was dating other girls. I was basically the side chic. Just last year, after I showed him what I don't put up with, it seems he started to value me more. He kept apologizing to me while I kept ignoring him. I didn't become cordial with him just up until this month in 2016. He has completely changed, and seems more serious about me and is actually asking me on a date. Funny how the tables have changed, because now I could care less, but all of sudden he's become a gentleman and wants to actually date me.
my college bestie is in the same situation. To make it short, she really loved this guy so much and even got pregnant with him. Before her pregnancy, he was being such a douche to her. Now that she has a baby from him and has moved on emotionally from the baby daddy, the baby daddy actually wants to be a part of her life again, and is trying hard to make it work with her. She tells me how shock she is because she is now fine without him but is willing to start over from scratch.
Guys: Why is it that it takes a year or 2, until you realize that you actually want to date the girl that you once didn't take seriously?
What Guys Said 2
He didn't take you seriously because you were friends with benefits. If you wanted a relationship with him you should've never gone down that path to begin with.
Also, it's "couldn't care less".0
What Girls Said 2
I think its just naturally that sometimes when guys screw up they realised that they lost something that they actually really want or need0
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