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Most Helpful Guy
I can't really think of anything to be honest with you.0
Most Helpful Girl
Ok, here it is. I took him out 4 days before his bday to a 4 star dinner. He then asks me it the next day and we get together surprisingly on his actual bday. This was the 1st time I've ever done a birthday dinner for anyone. He gets mad at me because I only paid for the dinner before his bday. He was mad he paid for parking even though I had the money. he said I should've fought him for the right to pay. The. He was mad that HE decided to detour and get drinks tha the paid for. As well as being pissed he paid for dinner on his birthday. He said my birthday efforts didn't matter and he took his gift and two bday cards and walked away. I have never planned someone's birthday so if I messed up jus they me know. I only planned on treating him to dinner before his birthday. He then told me the worst 2 birthdays he's had have been with me. Even thoughnthats not what he said in the moment. He also told me I was jealous of the attention I get and that no one would ever treat me as well as he does. He's gone silent for 12 days and I injustice can't compel myself to call him to make amends again. My family emphasizes Christmas over birthdays and I'm used to having misplaced beaus. But I did try and I did ask him what he expected. He told me whatever I did would be enough. Shame. As I had a surprise half bday planned for him as well. Really crummy. As all of the planning that I did since we were having dinner in a city that was not our hometown wa worth nothing to him.1