I know that if we broke up, he'd get back with her. And I also know that's all she wants. That's why I'm so worried.
Anyways, we broke up and he got her friendship back. Now we're back and I asked him to stop talking to her. He said he won't because she did nothing wrong and it'd be mean to her.
This really upsets me and I'm not sure if I'm just being a crazy girlfriend. He keeps liking everything she posts... It really hurts me. I asked him to stop liking all of her stuff too and he says "he can do whatever he wants".
It's making me so sad and insecure and I can't stop thinking about it and all I do is cry. What should I do?
Most Helpful Guy
"I know that if we broke up, he'd get back with her."
End it immediately! He doesn't love you if that's true and it won't last between you two. Save yourself sooner rather than wasting your time.
You are not crazy at all you are realistic. Nobody should be that close with an ex. An ex us an ex for a reason.2
Most Helpful Girl
My boyfriend did this way back when we first started talking. I was so naive about what they were really doing behind my back. He was telling me how they were just friends and she will do something crazy if he stops talking to her. I believed every word. Then one day my brother and his girlfriend snooped on his phone and found out that he was being very inappropriate with her and asking for pictures and to meet up and stuff. Needless to say, I learned a lot from it that talking to an ex is ALWAYS a bad idea whether just friends or not. Don't talk to your ex. Period.1