Should I cut him out of my life?

This man I really like moved away to a different state recently, but still wants to see me and "hang out." Things did get sexual with us once, and when we talked about relationships and dating, he said he didn't want a relationship because he thinks they're hard work and isn't sure it's worth the trouble. I told him I liked him, and he said he liked me too, but it's not practical.
I'm not sure if he's just planning to use me as a hook up every time he visits, but there's still a part of me that can't let go of him. Should I give him a chance or cut him off when he contacts me again?


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What Guys Said 1

  • Give him a chance if you're fine just being his hookup there. If you want something meaningful, he's already given you his answer. "Not worth the trouble."


What Girls Said 1

  • I think you should cut him off if you don't want the same thing as him.