Long story short, I told this guy about how I felt things were between us because it was stressing me out. Told him things were different between us and it doesn't feel the same as it was from the beginning. Everything use to be fun and light-hearted and he would text me as soon as he saw my message. A few times his seen my message but never replied until the next day. So thats when I piped up and said something. His response was that "What makes you say that? Nothing happened and I am happy talking to you.."
I want to sort things out but he makes me feel like there was nothing wrong to begin with... I was going to try and sort things out and if he does try to show that he cares, was going to take a break between us...
Not sure what to do, suggestions?
Most Helpful Guy
Never trust words. Words are easy.
Not responding to your text for a day is disrespectful. Period. I would never put up with that and you shouldn't either.1
Most Helpful Girl
Overthinking can ruin things. Here's the thing. Yes it's awesome when a guy texts back immediately and yes in this day I. Age everyone usually has their phone on them. But try not to put to ouch stock in texts. It's juvenile. Call him. Let him call you. Actually make plans to engage with each other. Also, get to know him. There is no harm in getting to know him. No need to rush. It shouldn't be about trying to find an inst-boyfriend. If he's not on the same page as you, yes it will hurt but you may need to move on. I'm not going to say you're guaranteed to find a mother guy like him but the longer you stay in denial the harder separating from him becomes. Be still and quiet. YOU know what the deal is. You can feel if he's on the level. Also, as females we like verbal reassurance. Guys don't always operate that way. Sometimes they are most action oriented.1
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