My mom had depression while growing up and she took it out on us, for years i taught life was misery and i couldnt enjoy life. . i thre myself into work became bitter because we lived a quitr conservative boring family and we nevrr used to do anythinf fun, my mom wasn't social either, i kinda got depressed and gave up on life, my older sister of 30 already ruined her life, i am 24 nevrr had a boyfriend, just one friend, no social life apart from working. .. How can i gain a social life? Do i need to move out?
Most Helpful Guy
yes there is hope. you've got maybe 80 years, that's a long time to work things out, and do all those things and more. one day at a time.0
Most Helpful Girl
Move out. If your mom, your house giving you a bad vibe, drop and start fresh.
Go to church, join activities, work full time/part time and meet people from there. Go to clubs or bars or fun places with your friend explore things and chill. Give a little craziness and excitement in your life.
The fun memories I remember from my past is when I got into trouble getting speeding ticket, do some stupid silly things with my friend, spontaneous trips, something unusual, extraordinary I done. Well I really don't recommend speeding while you driving!! Lol but I'm trying to say live a little.
First you need to learn to appreciate yourself and what's around you. It's unfortunate your mom has to go through depression and whatever's happened to your sister. But you have them. Many many kids grow up under abuse, poverty, and many other awful circumstances you can't even imagine.
Learn to appreciate and stay positive. very very important. Nobody is satisfied with his/her life. Nobody. We always want more and better life yet we never give much credit to what we already have. We take it all granted. You are only 24. You should be dolled up and taking advantage of your age now. live it before it's too late. It's never too late for anything but you don't want to miss your twenties not doing/trying anything.0