What does it mean when a guy says he needs to think about us before he makes it official that we are together?

So this guy we met and we hung out every weekend since then. All our time goes to each other. And we do everything that you would do in a relationship but we just haven't "labeled" it. He said he needs to think about it because he still isn't over his break up with his ex. Is him taking time to think about us being together or not- is it leading towards us not being together? Is it him just saying that he wants to stop doing what we have been doing?


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Most Helpful Girl

  • The reason he's stalling on you is coz of the statement he made..."He said he needs to think about it because he still isn't over his break up with his ex. " it seems you're a rebound relationship.

    I'd end it based on his statement alone. You'd only be giving your heart to a guy whose heart still belongs to his ex girlfriend. You will never be priority in his life as long as he's holding onto the past

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What Guys Said 1

  • He needs to get to know you more. Break ups can be hard and he may not want to put himself through that, but as I see it, if you are doing everything in a relationship than call it a relationship.

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What Girls Said 1

  • It probably means that he's buying some time in order to avoid talking about it. He's not ready to be official but he has no issue making out/hooking up with you.

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