I have a super duper big crush on this guy i am in the same club with at school. His name is Vince, almost two years older than me. He's a senior and I'm a junior in college. Problem is, we're both super shy, and we've talked about three times in a matter of a month :/ one of those was at a hang out at steak n shake and he sat right across from me, basically felt like a date. it went so well, we both got to know each other, and the more i knew about him, the more i fell for him... problem is he doesn't really initiate contact, i think i may be intimidating since I've been dressing up more around him, and doing my make up nicer. I get too shy to talk with him and i think its the same with him. There's this other guy in the same club who's been talking a lot with me, and i think he likes me too... i dont like him though, i like Vince. I get nervous around him like today, we played a board game, and i can so tell he likes me. he even messages me on facebook about how he enjoyed today. But all i could think about was wishing it was Vince... i feel giddy and myself around Vince and not this guy who's been talking to me, messaging me, and looking at me a lot. So, what do i do? I want me and Vince to go on a date, talk more, and just start getting to know each other :(
Im in a bit of a dilemma, please help?
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I think you should just bite the bullet and ask him out for coffee. I'm sure he'll agree to go out if you made the effort to ask. He'd appreciate it.1
Honestly, if you're too shy to talk to him, and if he's too shy to talk to you, nothing's ever going to happen. If I were you, I'd add him either on fb or instagram, and then message him asking something like "Hey! What's up? I'm so bored right now haha." You guys have talked a couple times before so it's not like you're a complete stranger. Message him like "Wanna hang out some time?" and I'm sure he'll say yes.1
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