In the end chica, everyone is superficial. Guys care about looks. Women care about bank accounts and job positions and ambition trajectory. Sorry. That's human life. You can either change yourself to the extent that you can, or continuously whine about it and play the moral superiority card while remaining alone.
You're not making a ""sacrifice" by looking past a man's looks. A man would be making a huge sacrifice by looking last. Men have one requirement. One. As a whole. Women have a lot more than one.
Would you date a poor man who didn't have a job? Chances are no, you wouldn't. Well, men don't care about income, so they could easily date a chick from the slums if she was physically attractive. In fact, my dad did and I popped out a couple years later.
We both have different priorities. And we're both superificial. Don't act like you're above The Animal. You're not. You're just as much a primate as the rest of us.
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sweetie.
dont let superficial people to let you down. you dont deserve that.
yes, most people are superficial. they claim looks matter, beauty matter, height matter. But guess what, you dont need them.
I am 5'2", short. And if somebody does not want to know me because of it, then its his lost. I am sure, there will be ONE WHO can able to see behind your body.
Just be patient and strong.
I am only 5'1 myself and I have never had a problem getting whatever man I wanted... and I am old now baby and I can still get their attention if I want to. It is called confidence and it needs to be in your soul, your smile, the way you carry yourself. Take a bath in some confidence and watch them come flocking. xoxo
Stop whining. Tall girls have it WAY worse. My roommate is 4'10 and every guy is into her.
I'm 5'9 and I have an extremely hard time finding guys taller than me. MAJORITY of guys prefer shorter women so your question makes no fucking sense.
Well.. looks ARE important, but not everything. You have to at least be attracted to the person you're with, but it shouldn't be the only reason you're with them.
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Looks aren't the only think but they are a THING.
Usually what will attract a man to a woman first is her appearance. But what will make her fall in love sign her is her personality , intelligence, and charisma. Her beauty may change with time but those other things make an intention on his heart that lasts a lifetimeIf you don't give a fuck about appearance... then how can you even consider yourself heterosexual? if you don't need gender specific traits like looks, you aren't straight! I personally wouldn't date a girl like you, i need the girl to at least be attracted to me physically to some degree.
Height seriously isn't that much of an issue. You're more concerned about this than you should be. The real problem is probably something else, such as being overweight or not social. Both of those can be solved rather easily.
As for caring about looks, I am happy that we do. Otherwise we would have a lot of unhappy girls in relationships who felt unattractive and unwanted. The way things are now you can pretty much assume your partner desires you.Wtf.
Being in a relationship isn't just being close friends. It means passion and lust and desire as well. And I wouldn't want to date you if you weren't turned on by my appearance.
But the weirdest part about all of this is you complaining about your height. Guys are divided on height and most don't care that much... But I know more guys who find 5'1" a turn on than turn off.I will accept you for who you are. Tell me about yourself. Height? Weight? Boob size? Eye color? Hair color? Body type? Do you have a nice ass? Age? Own any pets? Do you like sports? How many guys have you been with? Want me to eat your booty like groceries? What's your race? How old are you?
Because guys are more visual. We like to look at girls. But hating your height isn't going to help you. Guys love short cute girls by the way so you've probably just met some rude dudes haha. There are a shitload of people woh love short girls.
Attraction is really important idc what anyone says.
You wouldn't date a hobbit looking fellow cus he had a nice personality.. would you?I don't get the context but everyone is to some degree superficial. I like short girls but that isn't a rule
Guys don't care about height. You're projecting your own insecurities.
"5'1 makes a girl COMPLETELY undateable!"
-No One, EverWhy do most women care about money?
Why do most women care about height?
Shall i hand you a broom for those generalisations?5'1 You can't change it, thus just accept it. It's OK in my opinion
Your height is OK. My wife is like 4'9There is nothing wrong with that height. As long as you stay in good shape, not too fat not too thin, you can be very desirable for many guys. Take care and feel good.
Looks was always important. People have different tastes, though. Regardless, mere appearance is never enough.
Most guys love short girls imao so what are you talking about? I'm 5'7 by the way.
Give me a break. Girls care waaaaaaay more about height than men ever will
Short girls hate being short, tall girls hate being tall... WTF?
I don't really care about a girls height...I'm 6'3 so I don't know how well 5'1 will work out.
How tall are you? Short guys might have a small man complex so to speak.
because it is the first thing that grabs attention before knowing the person.
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