Do you ever truly miss someone, even after they hurt you or did something to you that doesn't deserve your, well, missing? I was sort of hurt, betrayed, and still have that feeling deep down inside of emptiness without them. As much as I know they truly don't care, and that I'm better off, I still crave the idea of them, miss the times with them, get triggered by things that remind me of them. I'm just wondering if anyone else has had the same feeling, or is going through something similar, and if so, advice?
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It's perfectly normal for you to feel the way that you do! Even if nobody will admit it, people more often than not miss their partners, even if they were completely terrible. It eventually fades away so don't worry about it! You just have to acknowledge that you had some pretty good times, but that they messed up and it's over now. It's a process. It'll take time. Any would takes time to heal. And it might not happen for a couple of months, I don't know how bad it was or anything. But give yourself time to heal and move on.1
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