So had a date with a guy from tinder.. He was keen from the start and I went along with a 'not that bothered' attitude. But when we met he was drop dead gorgeous, very much my type. So we chatted loads and had ridiculous amounts in common. We kept drinking and ended up both getting hammered and making out in the club. Then it all got blurry. Vaguely remember getting a cab home and woke up the next morning with bits missing. He'd texted me to say what a lovely time he had had and then I'd replied saying I'm trying to call you. I remember him calling me back but I can't for the love of me remember what was said. I'm concerned because when I get drunk I turn nuts so I could have said anything!! Anyway I didn't receive any messages from him yesterday so I'm starting to worry. we discussed a second date this week but I'm refusing to message him first. Do you think saying something stupid on the phone could have ruined a great evening?
Most Helpful Guy
"Do you think saying something stupid on the phone could have ruined a great evening?"
That being said, I have no idea what you said, or if he'd consider it stupid.0
Most Helpful Girl
Sweetheart, if YOU potentially fucked up, YOU message him first. This whole acting uninterested and refusing to take initiative is annoying enough, but pair that with the potential that you might have acted off-side with that?
He'll pass you up quick. Text that boy sincerely before you regret it.0