If we're supposed to love ourselves unconditionally why should we care if we get cheated on or when we cheat? Why not be happy with getting our fulfillment?
Is it guilt from what others might think? I know men and women who actively cheat and they're happy, don't care and can justify it... Of course their partners don't know. But where is God or karma if they've NEVER gotten caught?
If there's no one there to stop them or deal out their karma what the hell is the point of even being in a relationship? Am i cynical for thinking this way? I'VE NEVER CHEATED lol. It just confuses me when people stay stuck on someone who cheated on them. Maybe because I lose ALL feelings FAST AS FUCK when I find out I've been cheated on.
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Well it's simple.
Think of it as violating the terms of a contract:
You get into a monogamous relationship. What are the terms of a monogamous relationship? Monogamy, obviously. So to turn around and start fucking other people when you had initially signed up to be faithful to one person as per defined in the monogamous relationship agreement, you're committing a transgression.
A simple solution to this is to not enter a monogamous relationship agreement. Either remain single with many casual partners or enter open/poly relationships. This way no one feels betrayed.2
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