I only know a few reasons a guy chases a mean girl:
1. She's mean to others, but not around him. To him she's the sweetest most nice girl he's ever met.
2. Ego. Either he can't take the rejection and wants to win her over. Or he feels a need to win her no matter what.
3. He's emotionally damaged and subconsciously goes towards women that are in line with his fucked-upness.
4. He realizes she might just be having a bad day and doesn't know him yet. So he decides it's worth pushing past the bullshit (he could be wrong, but oh well).
Outside of those. I don't know any man that actually "wants" a mean woman for a partner. He might want a strong woman. But a mean one? Lol no.
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Men are often attracted to women who have some level of confidence because it usually indicates that the woman will be a healthy mate and not constantly depend on them for emotional support. Additionally, when seeking a lifetime partner, certain men are often wary of women who are too promiscuous, seeing them as more likely to be be loose and/or diseased. And thirdly, some men (usually dominant ones) just enjoy the thrill of the chase.
Well, for some guys it's really attractive if you're mean. I honestly don't understand this lmao but that's just how it is. I think they kinda enjoy the abuse and find it arousing. Sometime guys will be the mean ones too. There's this guy that likes me who is always rude to me but in an odd "I like you" kind of way. You really can't give them any attention of any kind. You just have to ignore them and block them out. However, be warned, this sometimes makes them want to chase you harder, because guys are just weird like that.
A combination of both is best I think, you don't wanna be a total bitch, but you don't wanna be a complete pushover either.
They like crazy bitches because they are more interesting and wild.
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If they want to fuck you, then you being a bitch just leaves a clear conscience for doing your dirty and tossing you out when their done. If your actually a good person that they could get feelings for then it's a lot harder on someone's conscience to be a complete asshole. It's not balanced.
guys love sweethearts aka nice girls, guys hate bitches aka mean girls. and what your noticing is alpha male player behavior, your attracting them by suggesting you dont want a relationship, and thats a magnet to alpha male players who just want sex.
Um... How is that even a question? Why the actual fuck would anyone *want* somebody who is straight up mean?
Needless to say, I'd rather have a nice girl.I ain't attracted to that, leave your mean crazy ass at home
I'm a nice girl but if you cross me or say something against me irl, I will come at your whole life. I do have some attitude.
Yes in a way it's challenging for a guy. But personally i prefer nice girls they're just more genuine and natural.
literally hate those kinda mean bitches! that's quite a stupid question to ask TBH! if you're being one please don't, you'll end up being hooked up!
Mean girls don't mean anything to me. I like nice girls.
Nice girls. Don't give mean girls the time of day. They're classified as mean for a reason
I like girls mean or nice that's not a big issue to me. 😏💋
Nice girls. Whoever tells u to be a mean girl is probably bs'ing u
I'd like her to be nice towards me, yet an apparent bit of being mean is kinda sexy
I prefer nice girls over mean ones because they are more approachable and "niceness" itself is very attractive.
horse and girls are same, the more hard to control more fun to get ride.
i like mean girls. ITS SO FETCH XD
Maybe you're just hot?
Nice girls. I break up with mean girls.
Guys love cool badass girls
I have no tolerance for mean girls.
Nope mean girls sucks
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