as much as I try to be mean to guys and ignore them, I find them attracted more to me like wtf!! maybe they just like what they can't have.. is that true?
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I only know a few reasons a guy chases a mean girl:
1. She's mean to others, but not around him. To him she's the sweetest most nice girl he's ever met.
2. Ego. Either he can't take the rejection and wants to win her over. Or he feels a need to win her no matter what.
3. He's emotionally damaged and subconsciously goes towards women that are in line with his fucked-upness.
4. He realizes she might just be having a bad day and doesn't know him yet. So he decides it's worth pushing past the bullshit (he could be wrong, but oh well).
Outside of those. I don't know any man that actually "wants" a mean woman for a partner. He might want a strong woman. But a mean one? Lol no.1