I started dating a new guy now, 6 months after me and my ex broke up. We were together for 3 years. I don't have feelings for him anymore, it's just that we were together for so long and when I talk with my new guy and if he says something that remembered me of my ex i sometimes mention it to him. It doesn't meen anything, it's just a memory.
Is he bothered by that?
Most Helpful Guy
It depends on the context. Like if it's a neutral statement like saying my ex was in some sort of field for work as an example is one thing.
But if they're complaining or comparing you to their ex then it's a red flag because obviously they aren't over them.
Heck dating anyone who's newly single makes me weary because even if they don't talk or complain about their ex, they can still act hot and cold and aren't sure what they want. I've had that happen recently and it felt like I was walking on eggshells with them till it ended, and it ended badly.1
Most Helpful Girl
No, Look at the end of the day you spent a lot of time with your ex and you have a lot of memories. Nothing wrong with that.0