My boyfriend told me to dress up classy but it's not my style... What should I do? (Page 2)
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Show us a picture of your style - like how you dress... Every style can be updated slightly making it more feminine and attractive.
I dont know how to post a picture...
Upload a picture to Instagram or similar site then copy the URL of the picture and paste it here..
it doesn't let me post URL yet since I am xp 1
PM me with a URL and I can upload it.
I will thank you
Be yourself. If he loves you, he will never go away. Maybe you can dress for him when you want to reward him in rarely occasion. Doing this is very attractive.
thank you :) that's a lovely idea
You can still be classy and incorporate your own look. If dark is what you're going for, nothing is more. classy than a little black dress.
too true :) thank you
If you love him, then you make some sacrifices for him. Either that or you're not meant to be together.
I will do that for him
okay
thank you :)
welcome :)
You two apparently are just not compatible. Why sacrifice your likes for someone who can't appreciat what you like?
It is because we love eachother and we have other things in common. I can't even stay away from him for a month...
Then sacrifice your comfort and sense of fashion for him, if you're willing to stay. What else is there left do do other than dapt if you won't leave him?
You are right I need to do some sacrifices for him
Exactly. You don't seem to have any other alternatives.
thank you :)
Good luck.
thank you
I think you should do that for him on occasion. Not 24/7.
thank youu
Look, I do get that you love him and you want to do it for him, but if it's something you really don't like it's going to get old soon and you'll regret it, so again if you really don't like that style, don't do it...
thank you so much for your answer
You're welcome ;)
tbh he should love you no matter what you wear, maybe on occasions dress slightly different for him but never change who you are
thank you really :)
I wish my wife would dress less Christian showing more clevage and leg but that doesn't mean its going to happen, she wouldn't let anyone dictate how she dresses and nor should you.
thank you :)
Well I think you should if you go to special place together. But for everyday routine You need to wear clothes which are comfortable personally for you (:
thank you so much :)
Take his opinions in and maybe try it, but in the end do what makes you happy, you both needa talk about it together tho
yeah its one of the many things that we need to talk about...
It really comes down to what's more important to you, being yourself or being with him. I wouldn't want to be with someone who isn't comfortable with my style or preferences, personally.
its really important for me to be with him thought...
If it's that important, then you can make the decision to change for him, it's up to you.
I see... thank you :)
You're welcome :)!
Why the hell are you wearing a suit and a dress? that makes no sense.
a suit jacket and a dreaa
*dress
Ok makes sense, I thought you were wearing a actually suit suit with a dress. Honestly if a guy tries to tell you to change clothing styles that sound like he abusive. Or going to turn abusive.
he is not abusive, he cares so much for me and just wants me to dress up differently
Girl google abusive partners stories a lot of them start off with first he told me what to wear, then who I can hang out with then wanted me to live with him but with no contact with family etc. It would be dumb of you to not think of the possibility he will turn abusive.
I know him many years and is the best friend of my cousins. he never told me with whom I can hang out etc...
Stop making excuses for his weird behaviour you are 17 you are not marry to him and you can do what you want. Besides you need stop being so attached especially break up before it just make things worst if he leaves you for good, I been there.
i know but we made up and we talked about the issue...
Well personally if he keeps this up you will eventually get tired because it's ridiculous to get mad over this. Just remember do you and if someone has a problem fuck them.
thank you <3
Anytime
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dont overthink too much. be who you are or else it might get worst later down the road.
thank you :)
huh dress and a pair of Chuck Taylor would be baller as hell
I will try it then
if your boyfriend can't accept you for who you are, why are you together? Down the road its gonna run into complications
we are together because we are in love and we can't stay apart
Grab him by the... oh wait.. well. If you really don't want it speak with him about how you feel. I believe he will understand.
I will do that :)
I'd ask the same of you if it was for some special event. But for your everyday clothing, just be you :)
it is not for something special just everyday
No dude never change to please anyone much less your boyfriend who should love and accept you for who you are
thank you :)
Bend him over and put a long schlong Johnson in there.
hahahahaha :p well there's always this option