Because it seems like it's freaking impossible to find someone.
Most Helpful Girl
They are attractive, or charismatic, or interesting or all those things combined.0
Most Helpful Guy
How to get gf:
1. Be born with a nice face and tall
2. Some girls are just height queens and are fine with you just being tall
If your average or ugly:
1. Make money and have nice job
Basically rule of relationship follow this premise. Women will only ever associate with you if they can get an advantage out of being with you. If no said benefits exist then no association will occur.