So I've been dating this guy for the last month and I let him spend the night at my house on Wednesday night. Absolutely nothing happened between us, we just cuddled and slept.
Today my friend told me that he told him and all his others friends that he had sex with me. I am absolutely fuming. I feel so disrespected by him and I'm considering breaking up with him.
Is this an over reaction? I really don't want to be with a guy who feels he has to lie to his friends about having sex with me to impress them. It's so immature and shallow and a huge red flag in my opinion.
Most Helpful Guy
Yeah, break up with him. That is genuinely a HUGE red flag.4
Most Helpful Girl
Not an over reaction at all. It should not be anybody business whatsoever what you to do and don't do. Yes, some men do it. Mature men don't. You know these are red flags, move on. A man who has to have the validation of other people and friends is NOT a man, but a follower.2