Everyone says that I'm hot and attractive and a LOT of guys stare at me (even guys who have girlfriends) but I never get asked out or approached by any of them... it's strange.. many of my unattractive classmates and friends have boyfriends... I'm starting to think that I'll never get approached by any guy.. There's this one guy whom I really like and well he's fairly confident and outgoing and is very comfortable talking to other girls but gets very shy and quiet around me.. he just stares at me when he thinks I'm not looking and finds excuses to hang around me all the time but never says anything..
So basically I'm confused.. I'm quite a shy person could this be a reason why guys don't approach me or ask me out?
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what makes you think the guy has to approach? girls are intimidating, and most guys know girls dont want them. and will just reject guys. girls are beautiful and dont risk rejection, so that means girls are the ones who are supposed to approach the guy she wants, and girls gotta quit thinking guys have to be confident and do everything because it doesn't work like that. confidence is gained in life and girls should already have that due to her physical beauty. but when guys are confident that means he's more than likely an alpha male player and will just use a girl. girls also gotta stop thinking guys are going to be like girls, with the outgoing shit and being naturally successful with the opposite gender.2