I have a habit of telling guys right off the bat
- No, don't tell me.19% (6)13% (9)15% (15)Vote
- Yes I'd like to know within the first few dates so I could end things13% (4)13% (9)13% (13)Vote
- Yes I'd like to know within the first few dates, I wouldn't judge her26% (8)29% (20)28% (28)Vote
- Yes I'd like to know before we have sex because I don't want to have sex with a virgin3% (1)0% (0)1% (1)Vote
- Yes I'd like to know before we have sex so I know to take things slow39% (12)45% (31)43% (43)Vote
Most Helpful Guy
I'm waiting until marriage for sex. It's bound to come up at some point sooner or later. I wouldn't ask her point-blank and I wouldn't want her to tell me right off the bat either. As the relationship would deepen, grow, and mature, personal histories would certainly be discussed.
What I've usually said is that I would prefer to date and marry a woman who hadn't had sex before. However, I understand the culture that we live in today and that people do things and have changes of heart and mind later on. I would prefer a virgin, but I wouldn't write her off immediately if she'd had sex before.2
Most Helpful Girl
I'd like to know just because it may be important to him or her.
My boyfriend and I are both virgins. I'd just be curious to know if he was or wasn't just cause its something to know. It isn't a deal breaker if he is or if he isn't. I wouldn't judge him either way.1