I have a habit of telling guys right off the bat
- No, don't tell me.19%(6)15%(15)Vote13%(9)
- Yes I'd like to know within the first few dates so I could end things13%(4)13%(13)Vote13%(9)
- Yes I'd like to know within the first few dates, I wouldn't judge her26%(8)28%(28)Vote29%(20)
- Yes I'd like to know before we have sex because I don't want to have sex with a virgin3%(1)1%(1)Vote0%(0)
- Yes I'd like to know before we have sex so I know to take things slow39%(12)43%(43)Vote45%(31)
Most Helpful Guy
I'm waiting until marriage for sex. It's bound to come up at some point sooner or later. I wouldn't ask her point-blank and I wouldn't want her to tell me right off the bat either. As the relationship would deepen, grow, and mature, personal histories would certainly be discussed.
What I've usually said is that I would prefer to date and marry a woman who hadn't had sex before. However, I understand the culture that we live in today and that people do things and have changes of heart and mind later on. I would prefer a virgin, but I wouldn't write her off immediately if she'd had sex before.2
Most Helpful Girl
I'd like to know just because it may be important to him or her.
My boyfriend and I are both virgins. I'd just be curious to know if he was or wasn't just cause its something to know. It isn't a deal breaker if he is or if he isn't. I wouldn't judge him either way.1