You ever lost interest in something whether it was a musician, movie, hobby, etc because you dated someone that you shared that interest or hobby with and it ended bad?
I've had it happen a few times where I didn't wanna think or listen to a certain band as me and a woman who used me as a rebound both liked.
I may have not lost interest in it completely but it made it hard for me to listen to and think about for awhile.
It makes me wonder if having too many things in common can be a bad thing depending on the situation.
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Yes, sadly. My ex and I were both gamers, we played some good games together. After we broke up I haven't touched those games at all. I don't even have a desire to play any game. And I was a gamer even before I met him. It's not that playing it reminds me of him, but it's just not as interesting as sharing it with him. Same goes with some TV shows. I just dropped them.
Same happened with my first boyfriend. He made me like a certain genre of music, but when we broke up I didn't listen to that type of music anymore.
I came to realize that having many things in common is not so good. It's great while in relationship, but after you break up you kinda loose yourself. That's why it's important to have some different hobbies and your own little corner where no one, not even your partner, will join.0
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