Hi everyone, I met a girl on a dating app. Her info says she's 18 and I'm 19 by the way. Then we got matched and we started chatting and flirted a lil' bit. This girl is always the one who initiates the chat as she always say good morning. One day, she said that she is actually 14 and I was like *shit*. Good thing I never touch the sexual topics. The fact that she was 14 made me feel a little bit uncomfortable flirting with her.
One day, she didn't initiate chat with me until night. She said she can't hold it, she needs to chat with me. She also said that she feels weird if she is not chatting with me.
Everyone, what should I do? Currently, I'm friendzoning her, but I feel like a bad person. Still, flirting and dating a 14 year old isn't right. Should I keep doing what I'm doing and see what happens? Or should I tell the truth? I don't want to make her sad and feel rejected.
Most Helpful Girl
NO!! N-O, NO! Your are practically an adul and you need to simply block and deleter her contacts. That's it. You should not be involved with a 14 year old who's desperate and infatuated. Let her date somebody her own age or she'll just have to wait until college or after college. Please don't be a dumb one. I remember this 17 year old kid a few years ago. And he asked question if he should have sex with this 12 year old, because she wanted him to 'break' her virginity. And I'm bugging out and infuriated. Guess what I told him? NO! Don't be stupid, or else your ass is going to jail. That's what I told him. And she even threatened him that she'll find somebody else. Told him to let some other poor sap be stupid enough to do it. Please. Use common sense. She is a desperate 14 year old who probably never had a boyfriend before just to fit in with all her other friends. She is insecure, and needs a better outlet.
If you can be responsible for being 'just friend's' then fine. Try. But be warned. Crossing the line with sex, and its a problem. No flirting and no nothing. You need to straight up tell her that you don't roll with 14 year olds, and you don't want to get yourself and her into trouble. That is what you tell her. And give her the ultimatum that if she crosses the line of sex or any romantic gestures, your done.1
Most Helpful Guy
Dude... get the fuck out of there!!! Unmatch her, block her, or whatever, but you have to stop.4