I basically dated this guy about 5 months back for about 3 months and we were taking it slow, never had sex but we got sexual only once and I saw him a lot at school and he took me out places. He ended things by randomly ghosting me one time and never replying to my message which SUCKED. He messaged me a couple times after though apologising and about 3 months ago he messaged me saying he wanted to make things right and take me out however he then ignored me again. He's two years older than me and recently went to a university about 2 hours away from where I live but his home is close to mine. It's been 5 months and I still find myself crying about him and missing him which is crazy as I haven't even seen him. I was also with a different guy about 2 months ago which ended on his terms as he's a total prick and I thought I liked him but got over him so quickly. I don't know why I still like this guy as i had two previous relationships quite close before him which I was with them for a lot longer and was more serious however I don't care about them at all. Just yesterday he texted me saying a photo of me looked really hot and we were talking for a bit when we were drunk and he was saying you should come up and see me at uni and i said only if you talk to me and he kept saying i promise i'll talk to you i won't ignore you and all this and we've messaged a few times today just him asking how my night was and i don't know what to do, do i forgive him o move on? I'm so confused as to what his intentions are etc and it's so hard as i think im in love with him
What should I do, a I in love with him?
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What does "never had sex but we got sexual only once" mean?
He wants to use you for sex. Plain and simple. He keeps you around to see if you'll actually have sex with him. When he's ignoring you he's found someone that will fuck him.
He doesn't NOT love you. He feels NOTHING close to romantic feelings for you. You are an object for his pleasure.1
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